Our professional Consultants are trained to assist you with etiquette, item selection, wording, ink color, font and envelope
lining selection. We work closely with our customers on their orders for both personal and corporate / organization events.
Through the years, our consultants have been collecting and gathering information on invitation and party etiquette. This
etiquette guide contains the questions our consultants are most frequently asked by our customers.
Prior to Ordering While Ordering When Order Received
When should I order my party invitations?
Once you have your event details finalized, as far as the date, location and time, you should place your order. You want to
give yourself enough time to find the right party invitation and choose your ink color, font and wording. With so many
options you need time to view what is available. You also need ample time to receive your order, address the invitations
and mail them to your guests. Typically invitations are ordered 2 to 12 months before the date of the event.
Should my party invitations match the theme or colors of my event?
Invitations are the first impression you will make on your guests.
You can incorporate the colors of your decorations in your invitations. Themes are often used as well. It is a great idea
to tie your theme into your invitations.
Can I see samples of invitation wording?
For help with wording, please visit our sample wording section
Can you explain etiquette for party invitation wording?
- A general rule to follow on invitation wording is to avoid abbreviating names of places, street addresses, cities and states.
- Typically the time of your event should be spelled out for formal events. Informal or more casual events may have the time
printed in numbers. If your event is before noon it is considered the morning. If the time is after noon and before 5:00 p.m.,
it is considered the afternoon. If the time is after 5:00 p.m. it is considered the evening. It is acceptable to refer to 5:00 as
the afternoon or evening. If the time falls on a half hour the proper way to word it, for example is "half after four o'clock,"
if you are spelling out the time.
- Punctuation should be used on times, dates and between locations. All other punctuation is typically left off the invitations.
- Zip codes are typically left off of invitations and cards when specifying the address of an event location.
- If you want to limit or restrict the number of children attending the party it is recommended that you enclose a note to those
who might be understanding or talk to close friends and ask them to spread the word. "No children" is not recommended
as per etiquette.
- In regards to gifts, it is never appropriate to request monetary gifts. However if you would like to have guests donate to a
charity it is appropriate to say on an additional insert card: "In lieu of gifts please make a donation to..."
How much wording is recommended on my party invitations?
For most invitations 10-14 lines of text is recommended. When ordering you will be given the appropriate number of lines
to type in for your invitation. If you need additional lines we will try to accommodate your request. We may have to combine
lines or move wording in order to make the text fit properly. We recommend not overcrowding your invitations.
How much wording is recommended on my enclosure cards, such as respond cards?
For most enclosure cards 5-7 lines of text is recommended. When ordering you will be given the appropriate number of
lines to type in. If you need additional lines we will try to accommodate your request. We may have to combine lines or
move wording in order to make the text fit properly. We recommend not overcrowding your enclosure cards.
How many party invitations should I order?
One invitation is needed per household. Once you have your final number of invitations needed, make sure to order
10-25 more invitations than you need. This is just in case you remember someone you forgot to include on your list or
decide to add guests later. It is more costly to place a second order for just 25 invitations, so it is recommended to order
extra invitations to begin with.
What font should I choose for my party invitations?
- The font you select should match the style of your event. For example, formal scripts are typically selected for formal
- It is important to make sure your font is readable to your guests. If your wording exceeds 14 lines, we encourage you to use a less scripty or "loopy" font to allow for readability.
- If your invitation doesn't have much wording we suggest using a "full body" font
- If you are choosing a light ink such as silver, gold, white or ecru, we recommend avoiding thin scripts.
- We do recommend using two fonts on your invitation (at no extra charge), one for your names and another font for your
- The fonts available for each item are different. To see the fonts available for a specific item, please go to that item and
click on the tabs "Customizing Options" and then click "view fonts."
- You can view your order in the font you selected before we print by ordering a proof. For more information on proofs please
visit our Proofs section. Click Here.
What ink color should I choose for my party invitations?
When selecting an ink color we recommend choosing a color that will match or compliment the design or border of the
For a traditional style, black and slate ink colors are recommended.
For a contemporary event we recommend using colors such as teal, mocha or claret to accent your invitations.
When should I mail my party invitations to my guests?
Guests may be sent an invitation four to eight weeks before the date of your event. However, if you have international
guests or many of out of town guests you should typically send these invitations out eight to twelve weeks before the event.
This gives your guests time to plan their travel schedule. The same guidelines apply if you are having your event during a
holiday weekend. You want to make sure you give your guests ample time to plan for your special day.
You may also want to send out Save the Date announcements. This is great for giving travel and accommodation
information in advance for your guest's convenience. Save the date announcements should be sent out at least four to
twelve months prior to your event.
How do I address my party invitations?
Invitations may be addressed in several ways. Typically they are handwritten, printed or done in calligraphy. Etiquette
suggests to avoid using labels.
Outer envelopes should be addressed to guests using the proper titles (Mr., Mrs., Miss, Ms.). Don't abbreviate names or
addresses. The outer envelope has the guests' names and address.
When determining whether to use Ms., Mrs., or Miss, always respect the woman's preference. If it is not known, it is
appropriate to use the title "Ms."
Men and women living together who are not married should be addressed with the names on seperate lines.
The inner envelopes should only have the guests' names. It is not gummed so it doesn't seal. You may be formal by
writing Mr. and Mrs. William Jones or as informal as Uncle Bill and Aunt Jenny.
Please note: Some invitations come with inner and outer envelopes and others come with outer envelopes only. This is
stated on the item's information page.
When specifically inviting children:
Young boys up to age seven are given the title as master. Mr. is used at the age of 18. No title is used between the ages
of 7 - 17.
Young girls are given the title Miss. Then when married it changes to Mrs. or Ms. if the woman keeps her maiden name.
How do I assemble my party invitations?
Typically invitations are assembled by placing the tissue paper (not included with all invitations) in front of the invitation.
The enclosure cards (reception, respond cards and direction cards) may be placed in front of flat invitations or inside folded
invitations. The items should face your guest when they open the invitations.
All items are placed inside the inner envelope if this is included with your order. The inner envelope is then placed inside
the outer envelope. The front of the inner envelope with the guests' names should face the guest when they opening the
Click here to see a demonstration on how to assemble an invitation
Do I need extra postage on my party invitations?
Your invitations should be weighed for postage before mailing. When items are added to the envelopes, the weight
can increase. Also, special shaped invitations and envelopes, such as square and oversized, may require additional
For more information regarding postage rates and fees, please visit www.usps.com or contact your local post office.
Mailing your invitations:
If your invitations have a bow, ribbon, or anything that is three dimensional be sure to ask the Post Office to hand stamp
your envelopes, instead of the invitations going through the machines since this might tear them.
Also check out this page to find invitation and card related terms:
Glossary of Terms
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